If someone tells you to listen to a song, listen to it. It may be the worst song you have ever heard but they wanted to share it with you. That is really special. If it makes them feel a certain way and they are so adamant about you hearing it, take 5 minutes to hear it. It shows a lot about someone.
It is hard to be casual and superficial when you’ve had a meaningful relationship with someone. So to recover from a break up, the best thing to do is to keep your distance and avoid them if you can. Doing that will allow your heart to start to heal, as the wound is not being opened, and your feelings aren’t being stirred. This will help to set you free to rebuild your life again, and you’ll be able to relate to them more easily in time.
I just want someone who won’t get annoyed when I text them six times or in all caps. Someone I can go on long drives with and can sing along to the radio with. Someone I can eat pizza with at 2am and kiss at 6pm. Someone who chooses me everyday and never thinks twice about it.